Tuesday, July 28, 2009

The Eye of the Beholder


Yesterday, I decided to wear a new dress, which was short, various shades of pink, and a wrap style. I even accessorized with simple jewelry and a pair of black pumps, to add some icing to this sexy look I was attempting It was comfortable and many of my friends complimented me at work and it did look nice. So, in the evening, I was walking to the gym from my parking space, and I happened to walk behind these two women. I would comfortably categorize these women as bimbos, as they wore the tight, revealing gym clothes, with faux booty and breasts bulging out of the synthetic material. Their highlighted hair extensions blew through the wind, and every guy who passed noticed. Literally, men would turn their heads to these two bimbos. I also happened to come across another woman, traveling solo, who had chosen limited attire to cover her various implants.
Honestly, I know that these women are not better looking than me. They are not even more desirable than me. However, what they have that I don't is a blatant neon billboard that says, "I will do you in an alley or public restroom now", "I will give you a blow job now", "You can do it to me in the anus", and/or "My friend can join us, and I will make out with her for your viewing pleasure." For some reason, men fantasize about these chicks, who are caricatures of what real women are, because they represent this wild, sexually free being who will perform on command, especially to make themselves seem desirable. However, these women cannot sustain a meaningful relationship, provide emotional support, be a partner with whom to enjoy life experiences, or raise a family. They can scream and shout in bed and seem really animalistic. But, it is women like me, who carry ourselves with dignity, self-respect, as well as sensuality. We, also, are very, very good at engaging in intimate relations--I can make a guy feel good while taking pleasure in what he has to offer me. In other words, I can totally screw a guy like a porn star, talk with him about politics and religion, cook him a good meal, and make him feel like a man. Those bimbos, they are only good for a disappointing one-night stand and an inevitable STD.